Lessons Learned: Installing new windows?

Note: this article heavily focuses on Northern California. While some concepts may be similar in different locations, do your research on local specifics. Installing new windows in my home was a bit of a balance between wanting to and needing to. My old windows are original to the house. They are black, single-pane aluminum frame... Continue Reading →

Juneteenth: Langston Hughes

Today is Juneteenth. Juneteenth is a holiday celebrating the emancipation of those who had been enslaved in the United States. Today I want to recognize Langston Hughes who has had a profound impact on my life with his insightful poem, "I Too". I, too, sing America.I am the darker brother.They send me to eat in the... Continue Reading →

Moving Forward

“The irony of commitment is that it's deeply liberating -- in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from the tyranny of your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around like rational hesitation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life.”... Continue Reading →

Max!

They say family comes in all kinds of flavors. I've always heard the expression there's your birth family and your chosen family. As a gay man, I regularly hear in our culture, "You have the family you are born with and the family you choose. They may not be the same family." that quote implying... Continue Reading →

T1D Biker Gang

This Memorial Day weekend in the age of coronavirus was anything but typical. Usually, I'm off on the motorcycle somewhere in the Sierras chasing the ebbing snow. With the continuing sheltering in place order except for essential services and exercise activity life here is anything but typical. On Saturday, my friend Sarah texted me and... Continue Reading →

The changing of seasons

It’s crazy to me that 45 days have passed since the original Bay Area shelter in place went out on March 17. In the beginning, days seemed like months. I blinked and then realized today is May 1. I’ve been hiking a lot in the local parks around my house. Whereas before a week or... Continue Reading →

It’s ok to say “I’m hurting”

Dear family and friends, It's 11:21 PM on a Sunday night and I feel compelled to write after an interaction on social media that crystallized a few things in my mind about the ongoing coronavirus pandemic. In talking with family and friends I've realized a few things that are really important to get out on... Continue Reading →

The 2020 CovidCut

It's no secret that I like my hair short. Even growing up, my mother and I would battle it out about when to get a haircut. Wearing helmets to ride two-wheeled contraptions has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. I try to avoid overt "helmet hair", which is... Continue Reading →

Coronavirus: Increasing Resolution

I remember seeing news reports of the coronavirus in China earlier in the year. It seemed far away and similar to SARS and MERS – both of which had very little impact to my life here in Northern California. As this virus continued to spread my attention quickly changed once outbreaks popped up within Italy... Continue Reading →

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